n A number of unofficial statistics show that many adoptees will actively start reunion. They are curious about many questions, such as why were they adopted, how are their biological families, what is his or her life like before adoption, etc. Some adoptees will even take a step further, meeting with their biological family. Often times the less they know about their adoption, the more they long to “search for root.”
There are adoptees that prefer remaining nonchalant attitude and don’t want to know anything about their adoption, yet some will start searching. They do it not because of hardship of current life or desire of returning to biological family. Sometimes these adoptees just want to know the truth. They long to see whose faces theirs resemble. They yearn to know what kind of family they were from. In essence, it is a search of self identification.
n Some adoptees search to satisfy their curiosity and to consolidate their identity, while others do it out of medical reasons. They want to learn their childhood care records, to complete family medical history, to donate their organs while knowing more about their medical condition, etc.
n Reasons above motivate most adoptees to reunite, but few adoptees will consider leaving their adoptive family. Some adoptees hesitate to reunite despite the yearning because they don’t want to hurt adoptive parents. Actually many adoptees will find, after reunion, that their true parents have always been there for them: It is their adoptive parents.